Even though my Dad was in his early 50's when I was born(I'm the oldest of four!), he never let his age restrict his involvement with our family. We always did so many things together like having picnics at the park and beach or going to the museum, aquarium and zoo. My Dad even took us rollerskating and ice skating on a regular basis-all while he was in his 60's!
Every summer we would take our annual trip to Disneyland with a side trip to either Magic Mountain, Universal Studios or Knott's Berry Farm. Now none of this seems that extraordinary; in fact, any dad could do any of these things. What amazes me, though, is that my Dad found a way to make all these things happen for us four children on a very strict budget. He not only provided what we needed, but went above and beyond in the recreation department while on a modest pension and Social Security benefits.
The most heartwarming part for me, by far, is that my Dad took the time to understand what was special to each one of his children. He knew that I had a passion for horses and would literally go out of his way for me to just see a horse. He made sure each year while in Los Angeles that I was able to ride a horse in Griffith Park. He would take me to local stables to visit horses. He would even go as far as to call up private owners of ponies and miniature horses and arrange for me to see their horses. We would sometimes drive for hours so I could enjoy these experiences. Yet, my Dad never once complained; he just seemed happy to see me happy.
At times when other people would think my Dad was our grandpa, he wouldn't let that phase him. Instead, he would use that as an opportunity to tell one of his corny jokes. They may have been corny, but even now I find myself telling those same jokes to my boys. My childhood was never boring since my Dad kept things fun and exciting.
As his 90th birthday recently passed, my Dad is still the same man I've always known-warm, funny and genuine. Everyone loves to be around him and can't wait to hear his next story. Did I mention he's an awesome storyteller? Anyway, I thought my Dad is well-deserving of a "Job well done!" since he's had such an impact on not only my life, but countless others. Thanks, Dad...I can't imagine my childhood any better than it was. I only hope I have and will continue to create such memories for my boys.
